25-Year Licensed Therapist Emil Harker Reveals How to Turn Conflict into Closeness
7 Steps to Turn Arguments, Resentment, and Defensiveness into Harmony, Forgiveness, and Closeness in 30 Days! (or Your Money Back!)

Without expensive therapy sessions, or forcing awkward communication exercises, and even if you feel your partner is lazy! Turning Conflict Into Closeness reveals the 7 principles of happy, lasting couples in a simple, easy-to-remember way that you can actually use when it counts—unlike other books that leave you stuck.

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INTRODUCING TURNING CONFLICT INTO CLOSENESS

The statistics speak for themselves:

  • 65% of breakups and divorces stem from poor communication. 
  • 70% of married couples report that their relationship suffers from emotional disconnection.
  • 80% of people say unresolved conflicts are the main reason they feel emotionally distant from their partner.

You’ve experienced the frustration of trying to connect, of stating your needs and desires to your partner, only for it to result in misunderstandings, defensiveness and more emotional distance.

Each time an issue goes unaddressed, it deepens your sense of isolation and the resentment grows.

Each time you feel unheard, unseen, and misunderstood, your heart closes a little more, and gradually the love that once was slowly fades, leaving you feeling lonely, betrayed, and regretful of what could have been.

I understand how overwhelming this can be. It’s not your fault. Relationships are complicated, and no one taught you how to navigate these emotional landmines. You’ve tried—really tried—to communicate, but something’s missing. The tools you’ve used just haven’t been enough to break the cycle of conflict. 

It makes sense that you’re feeling stuck. The emotional patterns that keep you trapped in this cycle are not easy to overcome. But that doesn’t mean change isn’t possible.

Over the past 25 years I've spent 37,000+ hours guiding couples in therapy. So far, I’ve worked with over 31,200 men and women. This has given me hard-won and unique insights on what it takes to have a happy, harmonious, and lasting relationship. 

I’ve read and listened to pretty much everything out there on relationships. I can confidently say there is nothing like this out there and this is different from anything else you’ve tried. 

 Why does conflict happen? Why do your efforts to resolve it often backfire?

This is what Turn Conflict Into Closeness will reveal to you. Unlike other tools that provide good but hard-to-apply advice that you’ll forget in the heat of the moment.

Turn Conflict Into Closeness shows you how to transform the very fights and frustrations tearing you apart, into the fuel for deeper connection and intimacy.

It meets you where you are by embracing the reality of conflict. That it is a natural part of any relationship, rather than something to avoid or fear. 

It shows you that conflict is actually good, and is necessary for emotional connection when handled correctly.

Instead of vague advice, or surface-level tips that leave you guessing what to do next, it will give you clear and actionable steps to turn conflict growth and closeness.

So while it’s true that it’s not your fault that conflict has sabotaged your connection. It IS your responsibility to fix things. Who else is going do it?

Your real enemy has been ignorance, passiveness, and complacency. Unless you take action now, they will continue to hold you back. 

Will you let this opportunity slip by, or will you take action to transform your relationship today?

Go From Resentment to Forgiveness and Closeness

I’ve worked with over 15,100 couples since 1999, and through these conversations, I’ve learned that there’s nothing more painful than feeling unseen, unheard, and unloved by the person you love.

The agony of feeling like you’re not good enough or worthy of the love you crave, and the weight of thinking you’re a failure.

This happens when you don’t know how to repair after a fight, truly let go, or forgive and be forgiven. If you don’t know how to do this, your relationship is on borrowed time.

The steps inside Turning Conflict into Closeness will show you how to prevent this, so you can stop fearing that your relationship might be beyond repair.

Reduce Fighting 

and Arguments by 99.9%

 How different would your relationship be if you could eliminate 99% of your fights?

It might sound impossible, but it’s not—because every fight has a root cause, and when you address it, you can stop the conflict at its source.

Break free from the exhausting cycle of bickering that drains your energy, disrupts your peace, and leaves you feeling frustrated, disconnected, and resentful.

Instead, experience the joy of a relationship filled with understanding, trust, and harmony, where you feel seen and valued, and enjoy the deep emotional connection that makes your bond stronger than ever.

Stop Rehashing Issues For Good

50% of couples have the same argument over and over again.

This repetitive cycle leads to a lot of hurt and frustration. It creates a fear that things won’t improve and might lead to a breakup or divorce.

But imagine resolving those lingering issues once and for all, so you never have to rehash them again?

Turning Conflict into Closeness shows you exactly how to make this a reality.

Allowing you to reclaim the peace and stability you’ve been longing for. To experience the joy of feeling deeply connected to your partner. 

To have lasting happiness that comes from a relationship built on mutual understanding and trust.

Finally, Get the Love You've Been Craving

I’ve spent tens of thousands of hours on the therapy couch with clients.

One truth has become clear: We all deeply yearn to feel connected and cherished.

Without this connection, something always feels missing. But when we have it, we feel whole, no matter what else is happening in our lives.

To feel understood, supported, and valued. To have a safe space where love flows effortlessly, conflicts are resolved and respect is mutual.

A bond so strong it can withstand any challenge, and a love that feels secure enough to last a lifetime.

The 7 steps inside Turning Conflict into Closeness will reveal the secrets of the happy couples who have made this their reality.

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Terri M., Utah

My sister told me about Emil, and how he saved their marriage. I was devastated by what was happening in mine. Emil helped me develop a healthy perspective and take responsibility for my part in the relationship. He guided me to understand and manage my emotions in a way that changed my outlook. With Emil’s help, I became a happier, healthier person and found peace in the process. His principles and perspective truly work, and I’m so grateful for what he taught me.

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One of the principles “Communicating with the Desired Outcome in Mind” was a game-changer. It helped me through challenges, helping me grow and truly connect with my wife. It wasn’t just about changing behavior but becoming better. Now, my marriage is stronger than ever, and I know Emil’s teachings will keep us on track. I owe him everything.

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Our marriage was broken—filled with silence, anger, and emotional starvation. Emil’s principles helped me accept reality, which I initially resisted, but it changed everything.

Slowly, my husband started communicating with more intention and effort. These principles gave us the tools to navigate struggles that would’ve derailed us before.

Without Emil’s teachings, we’d be divorced. His approach empowered me to change my perspective, transforming my marriage and myself.

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Jeanette M., Nevada

For thirty years, my husband and I struggled despite seeing several therapists.

Emil Harker was different—he taught us principles, not just communication skills. By committing to these principles, our relationship grew stronger, overcoming past hurts and achieving emotional intimacy we’d never experienced before.

Emil’s guidance transformed not only my marriage but all my relationships. He is a masterful teacher of effective and powerful principles.

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Emil helped us take our marriage from mediocre to thriving. In the busyness of our lives, our marriage had taken a back seat, and negative assumptions had created a sense of powerlessness and defensiveness between us.

Emil helped us overcome these challenges. I was amazed at how quickly I was able to make these changes.

Unlike other self-help books I've read, Emil's guidance brought such quick results because he pointed out the real problems and, most importantly, the real solutions!

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Jeff & Stephanie

Our marriage transformed from constant defensiveness and arguments to living in tenderness and joy. Discussions that once felt like walking on landmines are now open, respectful, and filled with understanding.

Emil guided us to a better way, and for that, we are forever grateful. We’ve shared our story and Emil’s book with many others, knowing it can transform their lives too!

"Emil Harker's Turning Conflict Into Closeness addresses the most important problem that short circuits great communication. It's a must-read for anyone dedicated to loving well."

- DR. JOHN GOTTMAN

Dr. John Gottman is the founder of the Gottman Institute, a renowned research organization focused on relationships. He is a leading psychologist and researcher, best known for his groundbreaking work on marriage and relationships.

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