Dr. John Gottman

- World's most famous marriage researcher and author.

Emil Harker's book "You Can Turn Conflict Into Closeness" addresses the most important problem that short circuits great communication, changing one's own character so that we are better able to love. It is a must read for anyone who is dedicated to loving well.

-L. Paris

"Excellent book with information helpful for any relationship. Straight forward, easy to understand concepts that can be applied immediately to improve conflict-ridden communication. The author gives interesting examples which help to illustrate the concepts. Ideal, both for couples who have been together for years, as well as newly-weds, this well-written book offers rich wisdom for improving our most significant relationships. The author's easy to read style is embedded with humorous touches. This unique perspective offers hope and optimism for couples locked in dysfunctional communication and conflict. It also offers solid principles for those with good marriages who want to make them even better. Definitely a must-read for anyone wanting to improve their significant relationships."